Guys reveal real reasons they reject girls

Unless you’re someone who has ever uttered the words “I’m thinking of going on The Bachelor”, chances are the idea of getting rejected by someone you’re into gives you the shivers.

Plucking up the courage to tell someone you like them? Risky. Laying it all out on the table Notting Hill style and standing in front of a boy asking him to love you? Terrifying. Having said boy then turn around and reject you? Absolutely heartbreaking.

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But think about it from the boy’s perspective. Maybe, just maybe, there’s a good reason behind the rejection?

Guys have finally revealed why they do the things they do. Photo: Getty images
Guys have finally revealed why they do the things they do. Photo: Getty images

To answer that question, men have taken to the Whisper website to tell all in a forum titled “Guys tell all: why we really turn down women”, and the answers are a little bit sad, bad, and might make you a little mad…

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The ‘never going to happen’ rejection

“My best friend’s ex asked me out. I politely turned her down. Never break the bro-code.”

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The regretful rejection

“One time I rejected a girl because I believed without a doubt she was trying to prank me… I still think about it from time to time, wanting so badly to try again.”

“Just rejected a girl because I’m afraid I’m unlovable. Isn’t that some s**t logic.”

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The ‘It’s really not you, it’s me’ rejection

“I just got asked out by this chick. And she’s a big deal in a popular kind of way. I turned her down because I haven’t sorted my sexuality out. I like this guy…”

“People thought I rejected a girl because she was a bigger black girl and I was a scrawny white guy, but secretly it was because I thought she could do better than me.”

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The strategic rejection

“The girl I’ve been secretly in love with for the last two years asked me to have sex with her but I turned her down because she was drunk, and I didn’t want to ruin the chance of having a future with her.”

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The a-hole rejection

“I once rejected a girl because she is fat.”

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